An opinion piece in response to Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani’s exploration of Nigeria’s deeply embedded system of inequality.

Reading Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani’s personal recollection of growing up with omodo*, in The New York Times Opinion Pages this past Sunday, reminds me of my own childhood in Nigeria. I grew up in the United States, but traveled to Lagos often before eventually attending boarding school in Kwara State. Most of my engagement with Nigeria as a child followed the pattern of confusion, irritation, and partial acceptance. I can blame that cycle on failing to understand difference at a young age, but now as an adult evaluating the prevalence of child domestic workers in Lagos escapes my naïveté and ignorance. The current situation in Nigeria is not simply about house helps – it involves growing rates of child trafficking, education, and mental/physical abuse.

During undergrad I received a grant to do research in Nigeria for two months on child domestic labor. In Lagos everywhere I turned an aunt, uncle, teacher, government official or friend would try to explain to me “you cannot understand because you grew up in the West.” Some of these rebuttals detailed that customs surrounding the practice of domestic work had drastically transformed over the past few decades and “back in the day” things were completely different. Or that instances of sexual, physical or mental abuse were extremely rare. After all, shouldn’t we place more responsibility on the parents who are willing to ship their children off to work in a stranger’s home? I’ve witnessed both physical and mental abuse of these house helps, which makes me dismissive of the notion that the situation is not dire. The reasons, or rather excuses, are endless. I’m not naive enough to say they’re all irrelevant, but the denial begs the question: why do Nigerians have such a difficult time acknowledging that domestic servitude is a material and real issue affecting hundreds of thousands of people?

Nwaubani’s recollection doesn’t focus on children – but that’s always been my concern. When I was working and living in Lagos a few years ago with family- I witnessed my Aunt go through 5 different house helps in 4 months. Each time it was a new issue- they couldn’t clean well, they didn’t follow instructions, they left my 2 year old cousin alone in the house, and of course they stole. These are of course valid issues, but always seemed faulty given the fact that they were mature expectations placed on children. During my research, I spoke with a government official in Lagos, who emphasized that if anyone had child house helps, they could and should be arrested. Of course, the person who set up my interview (also a government official) had 3 house helps that were aged 14, 15, and 17. The government official was indeed, putting on a show for my American sponsored research, which highlights how difficult it is to get Nigerians to speak candidly about the practice.

In her opinion piece, Nwaubani is most captivating in her address of how the dynamics of psyche have come to play a significant role in how we understand personhood in Nigeria. Her memories of her dad yelling at the house helps to stop singing remind me of when my Aunt, whom I love dearly, expressed incredulity that her 12 year old omodo thought that going to school was her God-given right. There is a madness in this- a madness that permeates many other aspects of Nigerian society- and is even implicated on the contrary when Nwaubani describes the house helps as having “a bottomless hunger that could never be satisfied, no matter how much you heaped on their plates or what quantity of our leftovers they cleaned out.” This is an insanity that nonetheless illuminates how oppression can be simultaneously ludicrous and commonplace.

With that said, I have some issues with Nwaubani’s comparison of Nigeria to the U.S. It reads overly simplistic in using the United States, which still faces a plethora of issues in realising equality across class, race, sexuality, and gender, as a comparison. In addition, I take issue with its publication in the NYTimes to a primarily Western audience, which in some ways reinforces the idea that American/Western values are superior to Nigerian notions of equality. However, it becomes difficult to defend Nigeria’s ineptitude at addressing domestic servitude when many fail to perceive it as an issue that is integral to, and implicated in Nigeria’s pattern of growing inequality. There is no simple solution to combating child domestic labor, or inequality throughout the country, but as a start we need to switch from a defensive position and sit on the sidelines, even if it’s just for a second. This is what we need to grow: self-reflexivity.

*omodo means house help in Yoruba
**I won’t waste my time posting pictures of child house helps (Where would I find them?). They are the definition of hypervisibility: that which is ubiquitous, yet never truly seen.


3 Replies to "There Is a Madness In This: House Helps in Nigeria"
Miss Trish says:
February 12, 2013 at 8:01 pm

An intriguing piece Maryam! very well written. To add my 2 cents worth, almost every middle class Nigerian is in some way guilty of the ‘omodo child slavery’, saga I said ALMOST. Not all! It’s simply a function of our society. There is hardly any way out for these kids but to engage in, and be used for, child labor due to the dire situation and level of poverty facing their families. They are seen as cash cows for their families and handed over to work for money. Their ‘wages’ are given to their parents or relatives and bypasses the househelp inspite of them being the workers.

Unfortunately, I am not sure if child labor can be eradicated in Nigeria. As long as there continues to be a huge gap between the haves and have-nots, between living on the Island (Lagos) versus living on the mainland and between the very rich and the extremely poor, there wil always be child labor. What I strongly oppose is the ill-treatment of the households; be it children or adults. In our society, only ‘omodo’s are seen as ‘witches’. The child of the house who travels first class every summer vacation and has the most offensive manners is never a ‘witch’ but the poor omodo is. To take matters to another level, these poor kids are sometimes flogged without mercy and left with huge life-time scars. I particularly know of a case where a bowl of boiling water was thrown at an ‘omodo’ in anger. Until there is a strict law against such maltreatment of a fellow human being and a lengthy jail term for the perpetrators, be you rich or not-so-rich, there will be no change to the Omodo situation and loads will be said but very little done – unfortunately!

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  • lai says:
    February 22, 2013 at 9:52 pm

    Good article…few disagreements

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