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    Two people in traditional wedding gear dance at their African wedding.
    Continental
    11 February 2019

    Breaking Tradition: Africans Told us What they Think of Open Marriages, Sexual Taboos, Polygamy & More

    We asked our readers to share their thoughts on non-traditional relationships. Here's what they said.

    Black Love: It's Time to Tell it Like it Is
    Popular
    27 February 2018

    Black Love: It's Time to Tell it Like it Is

    Are 'ride-or-die' relationships simply an excuse for the abuse of black women?

    Asexual Pansexual—On Performing Queerness Without Having Sex
    Op-Ed
    13 February 2018

    Asexual Pansexual—On Performing Queerness Without Having Sex

    How do we hold onto identity in a world full of expectations about what you do with your private parts.

    How I Found Empowerment in Unspeakably Horrible Sex
    Popular
    12 February 2018

    How I Found Empowerment in Unspeakably Horrible Sex

    Society expects women to be non-interfering bystanders during sex. I refuse to be quiet.

    This South African Queer Love Video Will Make Your Day
    Video
    28 July 2017

    This South African Queer Love Video Will Make Your Day

    Andy Mkosi's latest video is about not boxing queer intimacy according to heterosexual norms.

    African Hardcore: Behind the Continent's Porn Explosion
    Arts + Culture
    27 February 2017

    African Hardcore: Behind the Continent's Porn Explosion

    From Mapona to Afrocandy, African porn is just taking off. We look at who's making it and, more importantly, who is watching it.

    How I Found Black Queer Love In A Heterosexual Society
    Op-Ed
    23 February 2017

    How I Found Black Queer Love In A Heterosexual Society

    I didn't expect to fall in love with a woman, but I did. Does that make me a lesbian? Bi-Sexual? Or something else entirely?

    Don’t Give Me Flowers; I Am Not a Goat
    Arts + Culture
    21 February 2017

    Don’t Give Me Flowers; I Am Not a Goat

    Important instructions for those hoping to date a Nigerian girl.

    Talking To My African Mom About Sex
    Op-Ed
    17 February 2017

    Talking To My African Mom About Sex

    We dream of being able to talk to our African moms about sex even as we fear the thought of actually doing so.

    He Tasted Like Cheetos: How a Christian Kid Discovered Gayness and Himself
    News
    16 February 2017

    He Tasted Like Cheetos: How a Christian Kid Discovered Gayness and Himself

    The story of a boy coming to terms with being gay through a sexual relationship with a childhood friend.

    Enough! I Will No Longer Be Disappointed by African Men in the Bedroom
    News
    16 February 2017

    Enough! I Will No Longer Be Disappointed by African Men in the Bedroom

    Rufaro Samanga reveals the three kinds of African men you'll meet in the bedroom and why they all lead to bad sex.

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