“Being trusted to play a role in a couple’s forever story is something I consider both an honor and a privilege,” says Lagos-based DJ SKB.by Getty Images
Weddings are marquee events where music and memory meet. No one understands that better than the DJs trusted to soundtrack a couple’s most important day. For this Valentine’s Day, OkayAfrica caught up with wedding DJs from across the continent and the diaspora to reflect on love in all its cultural richness. They share their go-to wedding anthems, the most romantic moments they’ve witnessed behind the decks, and the songs they'd choose for their own first dances.
One thing is clear: for these DJs, it’s about creating connections across all the generations gathered to honor a tradition as old as time. Through their music, they showcase commitment, love, family, history, and cultural legacy.
“Being trusted to play a role in a couple’s forever story is something I consider both an honor and a privilege,” Lagos-based DJ SKB tells OkayAfrica. And in the diaspora, where identity often stretches across borders, weddings become a bridge between old and new, past and present. As Somali-American DJ Fawzi puts it, “Diaspora weddings require a cultural bridge.”In this season of love, let’s turn to the experts on how to soundtrack it best.
These interviews have been edited for length and clarity.
“For me, weddings are deeply emotional moments,” says DJ Black Rock. “You’re creating the soundtrack for one of the most important days in someone’s life.”by DJ Black Rock
DJ Black Rock (Egypt)
Based in Cairo, DJ Black Rock has built a name for himself with a versatile, crowd-tuned sound that spans genres while staying rooted in feeling. For him, weddings are deeply emotional moments, and he takes pride in crafting the perfect musical sound for them.
“You’re creating the soundtrack for one of the most important days in someone’s life,” he tells OkayAfrica. When it comes to Egyptian weddings, it’s the sheer energy that keeps him coming back: “Once the music starts, everyone joins in.” And if he were spinning at his own wedding? “Habibi Ya Nour El Ain” would definitely be his first dance song, he says of the iconic hit by Egyptian superstar Amr Diab. “[It’s] timeless, emotional, and loved across generations.”
What’s the most romantic or unexpected moment you’ve witnessed while DJing a wedding?
A groom surprised the bride by singing along to her favorite song while the entire room lit up with phone lights. It was simple, spontaneous, and unforgettable.
What are your top go-to love songs that never miss at weddings?
I usually balance Arabic and English selections depending on the crowd. I play all styles, but always in a classy, well-blended way.
Are there any musical traditions or ceremonial moments at Egyptian weddings that stand out to you?
The zaffa entrance instantly sets the mood and brings everyone together. [Editor’s Note: It is a traditional, high-energy wedding procession in Arabic culture, marking the grand entrance of the bride and groom into their wedding reception.]
Do you feel Egyptian love songs have changed over time? Are newer artists still capturing the same emotion?
The sound has evolved, but the emotion is still there. Newer artists express love in a more modern, realistic way that connects with younger couples.
What classic Egyptian or Arabic love song always gets both the young and old on the dance floor?
Amr Diab’s “Weyah.”
Are younger Egyptian couples still requesting classic Arabic music at weddings, or are genres taking over?
Classics are still very much requested, but usually blended with modern genres. It’s about balance, not replacement.
How do you adjust your sets depending on whether you're DJing a wedding in Egypt versus one in the diaspora?
In Egypt, there’s a strong emotional connection to Arabic classics and traditions. In the diaspora, couples usually want a fusion of Arabic and international sounds, so I balance cultural identity with modern global music.
“Weddings are once-in-a-lifetime experiences that demand excellence,” says DJ SKB, who views every wedding set as a chance to help tell a couple’s love story through music.by DJ SKB
DJ SKB (Nigeria)
For DJ SKB, music is a craft shaped by lifelong exposure to the rhythm of celebrations. Growing up around his mother’s event and cake decorating business, he often found himself behind the scenes, quietly observing how DJs set up and transformed empty halls into electrified spaces. That early experience planted the seed.
“Weddings, in particular, stood out to me as once-in-a-lifetime experiences that demand excellence and professionalism,” he tells OkayAfrica. “Being trusted to play a role in a couple’s forever story is something I consider both an honour and a privilege.”
With a sound he describes as “emotionally aware and intentional,” DJ SKB focuses less on what’s trending and more on what fits each moment. And while he’s seen countless romantic moments behind the decks, one stands out: a bride singing a self-recorded song to her groom, accompanied by a violinist. “The room went silent, every eye was on them,” he says. “It was unforgettable.”
What’s the best part of a Nigerian wedding for you?
Nigerian weddings are truly unmatched. From the high-energy music, the colorful Owambe attire, the dancing bride, the asoebi ladies, to the aunties who suddenly feel 25 again on the dance floor, and let's not forget the food and souvenirs! It’s a celebration full of love.
What are your top go-to love songs that never miss at weddings or on Valentine’s Day?
Honestly, there are so many songs I never miss in my wedding sets, but I’ll share four favorites: Tiwa Savage — “All Over”; Sean Tizzle — “Perfect Gentleman”; Kizz Daniel - “Mama”; Reekado Banks — “Easy (Jeje)”.
What classic Nigerian love song always gets both the young and old on the dance floor?
There’s something truly special about “My Darling” by Tiwa Savage. It’s a song that bridges the past and the present of love. The music video tells the story even more beautifully. It is definitely a record that earns its spot because both young and old relate well to this song.
Do you feel Nigerian love songs have changed over time? Are newer artists still capturing the same emotion, or has the sound shifted?
To be honest, the sound has shifted over time. Older records focused deeply on lyrics and realistic storytelling, but big-ups to artists like Savy Henry, Anendlessocean, Chike, Tchella, Tjan, Fireboy, and so many more who are making sure we still have current, meaningful songs to play at weddings. It’s exciting to see love songs evolve while keeping that emotional connection alive.
How do you adjust your sets when DJing a Nigerian wedding in the diaspora versus one back home in Nigeria?
My first DJing experience outside Nigeria was in Accra, Ghana. For that set, I leaned more into classic records and familiar party anthems to ensure guests felt connected and at home. For weddings outside Nigeria, couples and their guests often lean toward nostalgia and strong cultural references. Back home in Nigeria, the energy is more current and fast-paced. In both settings, cultural sensitivity and audience awareness guide my approach. No matter the location, cultural sensitivity and audience awareness remain at the core of how I curate each set, ensuring the music feels meaningful, inclusive, and vibrant.
Is there a traditional Nigerian love song or artist that still inspires you or regularly makes it into your sets?
Definitely, I'll list 3 songs that carry deep storytelling across the major tribes in Nigeria: Flavour - “Ada Ada”; Tosin Martins - “Olo Mi”; Ali Jita - “Tambura”. These songs are timeless !!!
If you were DJing your own wedding, what would your first dance song be, and why?
The song “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Andrea Bocelli will definitely be on my first dance playlist, in agreement with my wife-to-be. The reason is simple: every word in the song expresses love in its purest and honest form.
Are younger Nigerian couples still requesting classic love songs at weddings, or are modern genres taking over?
Whenever I have an upcoming wedding, I send out a wedding form and set up a meeting to get familiar with the couple’s song preferences. The feedback I receive shows that younger Nigerian couples still love the classics. These timeless love songs still dominate their playlists. They especially request them for key moments like first dances and grand entrances. Modern genres, of course, have their place too, especially during the after-party.
“For me, weddings are where love, identity, and culture intersect,” says DJ Fawzi.by DJ Fawzi
DJ Fawzi (Somalia/USA)
DJ Fawzi’s musical journey is rooted in healing, culture, and storytelling. A multidisciplinary artist for nearly a decade, the Minneapolis-based DJ has written, performed, and created music in three languages, including her native Somali. “Music was first my personal therapy, a way to process life, pain, and resilience,” she tells OkayAfrica. As she began sharing Somali music more publicly, weddings naturally became part of her path. “Somali weddings are not just celebrations; they are reunions of history, poetry, and rhythm,” she says. For Fawzi, these spaces are where love, identity, and heritage intersect, especially within the diaspora. Her sound blends traditional Somali classics with modern Afro sounds, soulful ballads, and global rhythms. Inspired by artists from Somalia’s golden era whose poetic storytelling and live musicianship continue to shape her approach, she curates sets that move intentionally from reflection to joy to full celebration while honoring Somali musical heritage.
What’s the best part of a Somali wedding for you?
The poetry in motion — literally. Somali culture is rooted in oral tradition, so even the way people celebrate love feels like a performance of history, language, and pride. Being able to soundtrack that is an honor. From Barambur, which is a traditional form of Somali poetry that combines storytelling, energetic dancing, drumming, and clapping to express joy, honor ancestry, and foster community. To dhaanto, which is fast-paced, rhythmic movements that are often performed in a circle.
What classic Somali love song always gets both the young and old on the dance floor?
The golden-era Somali classics from artists like Xasan Aadan Samatar or Maryan Mursal. These are songs with rich lyrics and live instrumentation. They instantly unite generations.
What are your top 5 go-to love songs that never miss at weddings or on Valentine’s Day?
“Hooyo Macaan” – a timeless emotional favorite Somali song honoring mothers; “Markaan Daada Jire 15” by Xasan Adan Samatar, an old school artist that is loved by many; Maryan Mursal love ballads that unite generations; a carefully chosen Somali slow classic for couples’ moment (varies by family); and a global love anthem (often R&B) to connect cultures on the dance floor.
Are younger Somali couples still requesting classic Somali music at weddings, or are other genres taking over?
Younger couples are rediscovering the classics. They want modern sounds, but they also want identity. So the trend is fusion, not replacement. The classics are being reintroduced alongside Afrobeats, R&B, and global influences.
What’s the most romantic or unexpected moment you’ve witnessed while DJing a Somali wedding?
Seeing elders get up and dance to songs from their youth while the younger generation surrounds them. Those moments feel like time collapsing. You can have three generations sharing one rhythm. That is powerful and emotional every time.
How do you adjust your sets when DJing a wedding for the Somali diaspora vs if you were doing it in Somalia (if it applies)?
In the diaspora, weddings are about connection to home, so I intentionally include timeless Somali classics that trigger memory and belonging, while blending in Afrobeats, R&B, and contemporary Somali artists that younger couples love. If I were DJing in Somalia, the audience already lives the culture daily, so the mix leans more into local rhythms, dhaanto energy, and current regional hits. Diaspora weddings require a cultural bridge; weddings back home are more of a cultural immersion.
“Music was first my personal therapy,” says DJ Fawzi, who has been a musician for the last decade.by DJ Fawzi
If you were DJing your own wedding, what would your first song be, and why?
“Markaan Daada Jire 15” by Xasan Adan Samatar. He is an old-school artist who's loved by many, and I am a big fan. It would also be a classic Somali love song that speaks about patience, faith, because marriage is not just romance; it is partnership, healing, and spiritual alignment. I would want the first song to honor intention, not just celebration.
Do you feel Somali love songs have changed over time? Are newer artists still capturing the same emotion, or has the sound shifted?
The sound has evolved — production is more digital and globally influenced — but the emotion is still there. Newer artists are experimenting, blending Somali melodies with Afro-fusion and contemporary sounds. My role as a DJ is to make sure the emotional lineage is not lost while embracing that evolution.
DJ Mosh brings a careful, family-conscious approach to weddings, curating sets that reflect all generations.by DJ Mosh
DJ Mosh (Lesotho)
DJ Mosh’s journey into music began at home, surrounded by musicians and instruments that sparked his early curiosity. While he initially explored music production, he soon realized the challenges of breaking through the industry and managing others. Based in Maseru, DJing offered him a more direct path. Weddings, in particular, captured his attention. “I noticed DJs playing as if they were in clubs, without considering the diverse music preferences of the entire family,” he tells OkayAfrica. That observation shaped his versatile approach to sound: “I enjoy listening to all genres and can select good music from each of them. Let’s just say I play great music.”
What classic African or Lesotho love song always gets both the young and old on the dance floor?
With Mafikizolo, you can never go wrong.
Are there any Lesotho traditions or ceremonial moments at weddings that stand out to you?
I feel that the Basotho have adopted many cultures. As a result, even when they try to be traditional, conflicts often arise because not everyone knows how things are supposed to be done. We have lost significant aspects of our culture, so I can’t really identify a specific cultural ceremonial moment that stands out for me.
Do you find younger Basotho couples are still incorporating traditional music in weddings, or are modern genres taking over?
Sometimes young couples attempt to modernize their ceremonies, but relatives and parents often take charge. I always make it a point to remind couples that they aren’t the only ones celebrating; their families are also celebrating. I always ask that they allow me to manage their guests and enjoy the ceremony. Typically, the elders will leave earlier than the younger adults, which is when we can switch to a more modern playlist. Once the elders are happy, they won’t be concerned about what comes next.
How do you adjust your sets depending on whether you're DJing a wedding in Lesotho versus one in the diaspora?
It’s always wise to communicate with the couple to understand their expectations before the big day. They will give you insight into their guests. For special moments, such as when the bride or groom makes their entrance, you definitely need to know their preferred song. While playing based on the insight they gave you, you will learn what types of songs resonate with the crowd. It’s also a good idea to have your laptop ready with access to the internet in case you need to download a song or update your playlist.
Having grown up around musicians, DJ Mosh blends his early love for instruments with a versatile ear for genres.by DJ Mosh
If you were DJing your own wedding, what would your first dance song be, and why?
Labrinth - “Beneath your beauty”. I’m a very emotional person, and this song captures the sentiments of many men who are contemplating marriage. It also expresses the female perspective, which is important. I believe that one can never make a partner truly happy unless they feel involved.
What’s the best part of a Lesotho wedding for you?
The part where parents need to approach their children in a way that many find challenging. This is where truth is told, and many will remind you that the journey won’t be easy.
I find [traditional weddings] really unique, because each has something that they do differently,” Nairobi-based DJ Stretch says.by DJ Stretch
DJ Stretch (Kenya)
With over 15 years behind the decks, DJ Stretch’s journey began in high school, entertaining guests at family functions using his father’s DVD players. That early spark led him to train at the Homeboyz Academy, where he was one of the youngest students. Though he later studied law, music remained his true calling. Today, the Nairobi-based DJ is known for his diverse and adaptive style. A true fan of cultural tradition, he finds joy in the unique ceremonial elements of different Kenyan tribes and celebrates the rich diversity of love and music across communities. “There’s so much diversity,” he tells OkayAfrica. “Each has something special that stands out.”
What’s the best part of a Kenyan wedding for you?
It’s always the evening party. I love having fun at the evening party.
What are your top five go-to Kenyan love songs that never miss at weddings or on Valentine’s Day?
Gosh, there are so many! Locally, there’s a song called “Chaguo La Moyo,” by Otile Brown and Sanaipei Tande, which many people love. To be honest, there are quite a number of songs, and I don’t know if I can pick just five.
Do you feel Kenyan love songs have changed over time?
Yes, for sure, they’ve changed. There’s a whole new lot now, and that’s why you’re seeing so many [tribe-specific] cultural events based on cultural background. Many new-age artists are coming up, and they're really bringing some urban hip to their cultural background, which is actually really good.
What classic Kenyan love song always gets both the young and old on the dance floor?
“Sura Yako” by Sauti Sol. That always works. It gets both the young and the old up to dance, for sure.
What’s the most romantic or unexpected moment you’ve witnessed while DJing a Kenyan wedding?
One that stood out was when a couple decided that their first dance would be with the whole family. Instead of just the couple dancing, they invited everyone to join them. They said, since we're starting as a couple and the families are with us, let's do the first dance together. I found that really nice,"
If you were DJing your own wedding, what would your first dance song be?
Probably something by Kwame Rīgī. I love that guy and his music. I’m really cultural, so I’d choose Kwame Rīgī as my first dance song.
Are younger Kenyan couples still requesting classic love songs at weddings, or are modern genres taking over?
Yes, for sure, they are. Some couples really know their music. Even younger couples are requesting older music. I’m playing a lot of soul, 70s, 80s, and 90s music at weddings. It’s happening quite a bit.
